This is ABUSE

Speak Out against abuse

Recognise Abuse?

Relationship abuse can happen to anyone. It involves more than physical violence, it can be when someone puts you down, threatens you or forces you to do something you don't want to. Find out more about how to spot the signs, have your say on the issue and seek help here.

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This TV ad shows how violence escalates from emotional abuse.

HAVE YOUR SAY

Tell us what you think about abuse in relationships.

Get involved – visit our discussion board and say what's on your mind.

If you've got something you'd like to talk about regarding any kind of relationship abuse, come and Have Your Say on our message board. The chances are you'll be able to talk with someone who's gone through similar experiences to your own.

THE ONLINE POLL

Q:Does your gf/bf call you hurtful names?

HOW TO SPOT THE SIGNS

Abuse isn't just physical, it comes in many forms. Being threatened or forced to do things counts as abuse.

  • Abuse in relationships can happen to anyone, regardless of the type of relationship.
  • It can harm you physically and emotionally, and leave you feeling isolated and lonely.
I see abuse

WOULD YOU STOP YOURSELF?

It's abusive when someone tries to control, intimidate or hurt their partner by:

  • pressurising them to
    have sex.
  • trying to control them by checking their phone
  • getting angry or jealous when they want to spend time with their friends
  • using threatening language OR hitting them
I want to stop

You're not on your own

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Share experiences in our discussion boards. Check out FAQs. Learn how to stop abuse. Get help if you are worried your behaviour may be abusive.

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